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A woman's number one emotional priority is safety and security. Above all, she wants a man who makes her feel safe and protected.
It would be convenient if she could simply ask each man in order to determine whether or not he will be able to adequately support and protect her and her offspring. But of course he would then lie in order to obtain sex — so she must test.
It's important to remember that often she is not deliberately testing you. It's not necessarily something that she is consciously aware of She just gets a feeling to behave a certain way, and so she does. Based on how you react to this, she then feels either more or less attracted as a result. This is known as a congruence test.
If she views you as a contender, then she will test you. A woman often won't even bother to test losers — instead she'll just become non-responsive and then leave as soon as she can. Thus, a test can be considered an indicator of interest, of sorts.
Congruence tests are a double-edged sword; if you respond the right way, she will be noticeably more attracted to you after the test. But if you fail, then she will be noticeably less attracted. (Chapter 6 explains how to maintain control of the frame and pass her tests.)
Appeasement is futile
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Token resistance
Women will give token resistance — expect it. If she didn't resist at least a little bit, she would feel like a slut — and that's not going to happen.
This can be tricky — an overly aggressive man might misinterpret all resistance as being merely token resistance, and could eventually find himself facing a rape charge. Whereas a man who isn't persistent enough will acquiesce every time she resists, when in many cases she was secretly hoping that he would be a little more forceful
Intuition over Analysis
Women follow their intuition, so believe your own bullshit. For example, if she wants to determine whether or not you are being real with her, she won't logically analyze what you said for inconsistency. Instead, she'll look to you to see if you seem congruent with what you are saying. (Are you?)
Another example of female intuition
Women often look for the "real meaning" behind what you say. For example, if you tell a story about your "friend-" she will usually assume that you are actually talking about yourself. This can be useful when the story demonstrates higher value. For example, if you don't want to look like a braggart, you could say, "My friend hooked up with this amazing girl and they had wild sex all weekend..."
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