What does it mean to be a Christian? Well, it should mean to be a disciple and be willing to deny yourself and follow Jesus. You should be willing to repent and turn away from Premarital sex, being drunk , pornography, lying, theft, and hate. Mark 12:30 says, 'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength. At ' Matthew 10: 37 Jesus says' Anyone who loves his father and mother more than me is not worthy of me;anyone who loves his son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me; 38) and anyone who does not take up his cross and follow me is not worthy of me